Ephesians 2:8-9 “For by grace you are saved through faith, and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God; not from works, so that NO ONE can boast.”
Grace cannot be earned. There is no room for boasting. It is simply given: Grace for me and grace for you – every day. I’ve read it and I believe it. But:
- How do I pass it on?
- How do I give grace like that to others?
- What if I REALLY disagree with them on a topic?
- What if we really can’t see eye to eye?
- What does God want me to do then?
- How do I show love like I’ve been shown?
I have found a few guidelines to help me in conflict:
- Be open to conversation – with respect
- Listen for common ground – mouth shut
- Uphold truth – know for sure what scripture says
- Allow the other person free-will – I am not their conscience
- Ask questions – instead of preaching
- Pray for grace continually – listen to the Holy Spirit
Because of Love, I have received grace. Therefore, because of love I give it. There is no greater motivation. God says: Love never fails and it covers a multitude of sins. When I start with the love of Jesus, grace usually follows. I don’t have to defend God. I only need love Him and then love my neighbor as myself… He will take care of the rest.
ForGlorySake! –Anna
