{"id":3102,"date":"2017-11-03T13:03:57","date_gmt":"2017-11-03T17:03:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/etheriedge.wordpress.com\/?p=3102"},"modified":"2020-12-23T17:34:08","modified_gmt":"2020-12-23T22:34:08","slug":"dys-function-al","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/03\/dys-function-al\/","title":{"rendered":"Dys-function-al"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A sweet older woman complimented me recently on our large family saying, <em>&#8220;It&#8217;s so nice to see a family that&#8217;s not dysfunctional these days.&#8221;<\/em>\u00a0 I nearly burst out laughing because we are\u00a0definitely dysfunctional and are no way the <em>model family<\/em>\u00a0by most standards. I won&#8217;t list all our failings but, our 2 best things may be: sticking together and loving each other through all the mess.<\/p>\n<p><strong>All we like sheep<\/strong>&#8230;<br \/>I looked up <strong>dysfunctional<\/strong>\u00a0and it said, <em>&#8220;Not performing normally, having a malfunctioning element, behaving outside of what is normal in human society.&#8221;<\/em> That&#8217;s pretty vague. What&#8217;s <em>normal<\/em>? Where&#8217;s the standard or moral basis being used?\u00a0Each syllable helped me get a bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dys &#8211;<\/strong>\u00a0<em>means ill or bad<\/em>. Yet\u00a0God considered each of us worthy enough to pay the price of His Son&#8217;s life for our salvation. That&#8217;s Value to be respected and remembered. God says we have worth!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Func\/tion<\/strong> &#8211; <em>is the purpose for which something is designed<\/em>. Family is meant to be a unit. A haven and safe zone from the outside world. Its a place to question and debate. It&#8217;s where we first learn to love our neighbor. <em>If you can learn to love your sibling, you can love anyone!\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Al<\/strong> &#8211; <em>is having the character of.\u00a0<\/em>We humans are really good at making messes. Sometimes we create such a disaster we can&#8217;t fix it, but there is One who brings order out of chaos and beauty from ashes. He is never overwhelmed or at a loss. He does not despise small beginnings, He always encourages &#8220;little&#8221; faith.<\/p>\n<p>So maybe we are dysfunctional &#8211; but God continues to shake us down, heat us up and overturn the disasters of our lives, showing us again and again<strong> He is faithful!<\/strong> He&#8217;s not blind to our mess, but He&#8217;s not deterred by it either&#8230; He challenges it, and uses it&#8230;<br \/><br \/><strong>ForGlorySake!<\/strong> <em>-Anna\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"615\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?resize=640%2C615&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3105\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?resize=1024%2C984&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?resize=300%2C288&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?resize=768%2C738&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?resize=1568%2C1506&amp;ssl=1 1568w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?w=1932&amp;ssl=1 1932w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/img_5396.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption>A cord of 3 isn&#8217;t easily broken<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sweet older woman complimented me recently on our large family saying, &#8220;It&#8217;s so nice to see a family that&#8217;s not dysfunctional these days.&#8221;\u00a0 I nearly burst out laughing because we are\u00a0definitely dysfunctional and are no way the model family\u00a0by &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/03\/dys-function-al\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2,3,1420,5,8,9,10],"tags":[243,305,404],"class_list":["post-3102","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction-recovery","category-children","category-devotional","category-marriage","category-practical-life","category-spiritual-growth","category-trust","tag-family","tag-god-can","tag-hope"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paUt4s-O2","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3102","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3102"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5886,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3102\/revisions\/5886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}