{"id":1914,"date":"2014-09-19T21:36:33","date_gmt":"2014-09-20T01:36:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/etheriedge.wordpress.com\/?p=1914"},"modified":"2020-11-29T15:21:20","modified_gmt":"2020-11-29T20:21:20","slug":"ouch-thats-my-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/2014\/09\/19\/ouch-thats-my-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"Ouch, That&#039;s My Heart!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Love is a big gamble. When you open your heart and allow yourself to feel for someone else there&#8217;s an inevitability you&#8217;re going to get hurt. Not necessarily because they mean to hurt you, but definitely -as you draw closer-\u00a0<em>you will hurt<\/em> with them and for them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve come to realize that the heart-ache and hurt I feel for someone else&#8217;s suffering brings with it an incredible by-product, a gift. My heart stretches bigger. The holiday video, <em>&#8220;The Grinch That Stole Christmas&#8221;<\/em> has this scene near the end, of the Grinch grabbing his chest, as his heart grows several sizes. It actually breaks the tiny box that holds it.<\/p>\n<p>When someone I love is in pain, I tell God all about how I feel; how I think it\u00a0<em>stinks<\/em> and\u00a0<em>hurts<\/em>\u00a0them and me. When the <i>issue<\/i>\u00a0keeps on going, big, and ugly I feel hurt and frustrated. That&#8217;s when it&#8217;s time to stop all these swirling thoughts, frantic prayers and just <em>sit with the hurt<\/em> knowing <em>it&#8217;s\u00a0ok<\/em>. Father God feels the pain with me.<\/p>\n<p>I can trust He\u00a0<em>is<\/em>\u00a0aware and involved<i>.<\/i>\u00a0It&#8217;s only my inability to figure out His plan that&#8217;s frustrating me. God will never be figured out or pinned down. That&#8217;s what makes Him God. Sometimes His work is so quiet and behind the scenes. Sometimes it&#8217;s out in front for all to see. Either way, <strong><em>God in His great timing and wisdom, knows how to bring beauty from ashes.<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0He is all about reaping the biggest harvest of results&#8230; the <em>best<\/em> rewards from the messiest of lives.<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t Jesus&#8217; <strong>Life, Death, and Resurrection<\/strong> the perfect example?! Even my old <em>grinchy<\/em> heart can grow bigger in Him. Love and keep on loving; my family, my friends, my neighbor, a stranger (until they aren&#8217;t anymore). So worth the cost and risk to my heart.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>S T R E T C H!<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><strong>ForGlorySake!<\/strong> &#8211;\u00a0<em style=\"color: #444444;\">Anna<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?resize=640%2C853&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1916\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?resize=1568%2C2091&amp;ssl=1 1568w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/img_7863.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption><em>Teach me how to love<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is a big gamble. 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