{"id":1805,"date":"2013-11-10T10:46:19","date_gmt":"2013-11-10T15:46:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/etheriedge.wordpress.com\/?p=1805"},"modified":"2020-11-27T16:23:29","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T21:23:29","slug":"blessing-your-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/10\/blessing-your-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Blessing Your Child"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I come from a southern family: 5 generations of my mother&#8217;s side were born and raised in Atlanta. Can you say &#8220;Daaawlin?&#8221; My poor dad didn&#8217;t stand a change living anywhere else. According to my maternal grandmother, his loyalties were already in question -having been born in the state of Virginia.<\/p>\n<p>My father&#8217;s sale&#8217; job was in New York and my <em>mom<\/em>\u00a0was not going to raise her 4 girls above the <em>Mason Dixon Line<\/em>&#8230; so he commuted. Flying out every Monday morning, he worked all week <em>up north<\/em>\u00a0and flew back on Friday. A mechanical-engineering, car-fanatic, he became more and more lost in our female-only,\u00a0estrogen-dominated household. Once home, we usually saw his feet sticking out from beneath one of his many cars!<\/p>\n<p>He was an excellent provider, however sharing feelings was never a strong point.\u00a0I remember him occasionally taking me on dates and trying hard to relate. We all knew he loved us, <em>because mom told us repeatedly<\/em>&#8230; and he wrote it on cards. But every child longs to hear 1st hand.<\/p>\n<p>At 81 my father&#8217;s dementia causes him to brake social and verbal reserves. He repeats phrases like,\u00a0<em>&#8220;Thank you for helping me,&#8221;<\/em> and <em>&#8220;I appreciate you coming,&#8221;<\/em> and <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m so glad you&#8217;re here&#8221;<\/em>\u00a0and &#8220;I love you.&#8221; He says them over and over and I never tire of hearing.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if he always thought these, but just didn&#8217;t say them. They are a gift in the midst of this decline. God\u00a0<em>knew<\/em> I needed to hear these specific words of blessing and have them repeated over and over \ud83d\ude42 Thankful<\/p>\n<p><strong>ForGlorySake!<\/strong> <em>-Anna<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" src=\"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/img_4542-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1806\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/img_4542-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/img_4542-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/img_4542-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/forglorysake.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/img_4542-1568x1171.jpg 1568w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>lunch with my parents 2013<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I come from a southern family: 5 generations of my mother&#8217;s side were born and raised in Atlanta. Can you say &#8220;Daaawlin?&#8221; My poor dad didn&#8217;t stand a change living anywhere else. 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